tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-86562045491002781632024-03-12T20:57:52.194-07:00Vicky Valdes' Inspiration NetworkA Platform to teach, inspire and transform lives. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04717543872427283549noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8656204549100278163.post-91452449456066964562012-09-25T20:32:00.000-07:002012-09-25T20:39:58.718-07:00The Greatest Actors of Our Time<div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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“Lights, Camera, Action”!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This is the norm in Hollywood for all working
actors.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The glam, red carpet events,
award nominations and award shows are all a part of life for the elites in
Hollywood.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p><br />
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In the early part of each year,
actors await the announcements of the Oscar nominations.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s the ‘Oscar buzz’, a major event for
Hollywood actors, directors, producers and the behind-the-scene greats await to
hear their destiny in Oscar World.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Although, it’s exciting for the famous, there are the infamous who have
been overlooked for an Oscar nomination for their superior daily performances.
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While the famous are being praised and rewarded for their false acts, some are
not receiving the recognition for their stand up performances of everyday life.
Who says you need acting classes or an acting coach? We display our
talents through everyday life while others pay hundreds or thousands of dollars
to learn, enhance a craft or talent that most of us have mastered through
life's experiences. As actors spend their days running from paparazzi; we are
avoiding debt collectors.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We laugh,
smile, and help someone in need, while we’re experiencing hardship in our personal
lives. That’s pretty good acting!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>In fact, it costs absolutely nothing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>It’s the acting abilities that so many of us have encountered - by no
means deliberate.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p> </o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The Great Actors Within<o:p></o:p></i></b></div>
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From the financial stress of high
debt, low savings and insufficient income; to the emotional roller coaster and
the mental distress we encounter daily, it’s no wonder the depression and
suicide rates are at its all-time high.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>These days, it’s difficult to identify the sufferers.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We perform our greatest acts by showing a
different side outwardly than what we are truly experiencing inwardly.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The person you sit next to every day at work
that smiles or laughs with you could be the same person going through financial
strain behind closed doors and is in danger of losing his car or home.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Or the unfriendly cashier at the grocery
store who gave you an attitude when you asked her to check an item that did not
scan on sale, could be a single mother who is extremely tired from working two
jobs to pay her bills and feed her children.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>It is inevitable what so many people may be facing today.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Nonetheless, these are the same people we
interact with every day who could be dealing with hard times in their lives but
are great actors in hiding what they are truly experiencing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For those of us who experience someone who
may be unpleasant, keep this in mind: <o:p> </o:p></div>
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</span></span></span>Be patient and know that there is a reason why
someone is mistreating you and it has nothing to do with you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Hurt people; hurt others. <o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span>Embrace them with love.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This could be someone who is not used to
receiving love and does not know how to give it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span>Do not allow their actions or behavior influence
you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Sometimes, our response can make a
world of difference.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>People who are
negative and express negative behavior expect to receive negative results.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Prove them wrong and react in an opposite
manner.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Respond with grace and
humility.<o:p> </o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">It’s easier said than done:
Letting go of the past<o:p></o:p></i></b></div>
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If the current events aren’t enough,
so many of us are struggling with letting go of our past.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The past is the cause of numerous lost and
broken people walking around today.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If
that’s not enough, the past causes a lot of hindrances in our lives too.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It robs us from the endless possibilities of
pursuing our goals and living our dreams.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>There are many culprits of hindrances that keep us from moving forward and
living our dreams such as unforgiveness, bitterness, loneliness, discouragement,
emotional distress, low self-confidence and low self-esteem - to name a few.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It steals our chance of fulfillment, joy and
happiness in this world.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Living with these
hindrances may cause us to block our blessings.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Understandably, some people would like to seek help and do not know
where to start or go to seek the assistance.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>We need not only the guidance in pointing us in the right direction, but
we also need the assurance that seeking help will benefit our lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We have become accustomed to believing that things
in life will not get better and opt for living a mediocre life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We’ve built patterns in withholding emotions
and feelings that are affecting our happiness and well-being.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In essence, our lives are in constant replay
as if we’re watching re-runs from an old syndicate show.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Instead, it’s our life being displayed in
rewind.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We choose this lifestyle because
it’s all we’ve grown to know.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s a
familiar path we take in life that makes us feel more comfortable with
ourselves.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p> </o:p></div>
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But we can choose to live
differently.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is time to take a stand
for yourself and live the life you were meant to live.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A life that is unimaginable and beyond your
wildest dreams!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You have to start
somewhere.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And starting with the
emotional healing process and finding your inner peace is a great way to
start.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The healing process is indicative
to a peaceful present and a better future.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>So, it’s important to research all of the resources available: <o:p> </o:p></div>
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</span></span></span>Books – there are tons of books that focus on
emotional and mental healing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Conduct a
search on the internet or your local library to determine the right book for
you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span>Internet – the internet provides a ton of
information on the topic of emotional healing and letting go of the past.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There are websites and other resources
provided on the internet that will guide us and get us started.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span>Counseling – the thought of counseling makes a
lot of people nervous.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I used to cringe
at the thought of talking to someone about my darkest moments in my
childhood.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But I overcame that fear and
sought counseling through my church.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It
was the best decision I’d ever made and I’m grateful that I did.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Seeking counseling through a therapist, local
church or community centers, it will serve you a great deal emotionally,
mentally and physically.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>
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Be open-minded to one of the
options mentioned in seeking the help needed to overcome the barriers from your
past.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You will be thankful that you
did.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You all deserve a better present
and future.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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Stay Encouraged and Be Blessed! <o:p></o:p></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04717543872427283549noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8656204549100278163.post-18587419202215183392012-08-25T20:17:00.000-07:002012-09-25T21:18:03.166-07:00Test the Waters: Living Life with No Limits!
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNxIcu1c2XrM2LEdHdLSCpCoJ8IGXxXrtkLIsVLQN-ptIrSKdUI_IGaFSK4zgxVNjr5GaxlAKsR9-B-YfnJnE3TdgjurHi38c8J3U2gcK8vIlxCGWXXgo1QuwsPyou1zELZPV21tFnZPNv/s1600/No+limits.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNxIcu1c2XrM2LEdHdLSCpCoJ8IGXxXrtkLIsVLQN-ptIrSKdUI_IGaFSK4zgxVNjr5GaxlAKsR9-B-YfnJnE3TdgjurHi38c8J3U2gcK8vIlxCGWXXgo1QuwsPyou1zELZPV21tFnZPNv/s200/No+limits.jpg" width="200" /></a><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Often times, a bright idea pops in our heads and we look
around like some magical character is going </span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">to jump out and show himself as the culprit of that
idea.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It's Amazing that we forget the
idea <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span style="font-family: Calibri;">was not presented by accident, there's a reason why we
thought it in the first place.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is God
channeling </span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">us to think big and venture out to do more in life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But how many of us take our thoughts
seriously </span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">and pursue the ideas that have been instilled in us?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Do we doubt our abilities of achieving great </span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">things in life? Or do we fear the price of rejection and
never try at all?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><o:p><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> </span></o:p><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Well, let me be the first to say that if this was a
multiple choice test, I would choose option 'D' </span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">- all of the above.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Most of my life was spent living in fear, with self-doubt, and afraid of
being </span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">rejected.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Instead
of taking a chance or risks, I'd play it safe and protect my feelings from
getting </span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">hurt.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Perhaps the
hurt I've endured in my life kept me from trying - so I didn't.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For many years </span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">I've allowed great opportunities pass me by, simply
because I chose to live cautiously instead of </span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">just giving life a chance. How does one break the
barriers that stem from the negative occurrences?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">It isn't easy but admittedly, it definitely is
achievable.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Until one day, I had an
inkling to do something spontaneous.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So,
I decided to test the waters in certain areas in my life and see what results
I’d receive.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The results were indeed
amazing but not surprising. </span><o:p><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> </span></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">The first attempt at faith was to post my resume to
several online job sites but chose Florida as the location.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
wanted to test the waters and see what happens.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>This was the beginning of a wonderful journey to do things in 'faith'
and watch faith work in my life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Although,
I started with one job site, I was confident that I would receive a response
about an opportunity.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And did I
ever!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><o:p><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> </span></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">The day after posting my resume online, I received an
email from a company who was interested in</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">interviewing me for a position in my field of Technology.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The job included relocation expenses, a great
salary, benefits and more.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Although, I
really wasn't looking for another job, I wanted to take a 'leap of faith' as
everyone says and see how it will work in my life. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There were many more opportunities that
followed since I debuted my resume online.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>In addition, since that experience, I've been taking a chance in other
areas in my life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Many doors have opened
for me and great opportunities have presented itself in my life thus far.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I now realize that I was limiting myself from
the possibilities that life has to offer.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span></span><o:p><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> </span></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I wanted to share my testimony because I know many of you
have the same mindset.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Not realizing
your full potential, living a mediocre life, allowing fear and doubt to decide
for you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Sometimes we analyze </span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">things too much.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>We are the cause of confusion in our lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Instead of giving it a Go - we give it </span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">a No!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Nothing in
life is perfect, but we will not know what doors will open in our lives if we
do </span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">not try. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">If you're still in doubt and need encouragement to get
you started in living a life with no limits, here are a few principles that helped
me along the way:</span><o:p><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> </span></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><strong><em>Believe</em></strong> - we can't do anything in life unless we
believe.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Believe in yourself, in God and
in what<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span style="font-family: Calibri;">you want.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>"All things are possible to him who believes." Mark 9:23 NLT</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><strong><em>Pray</em></strong> - The bible says, 'you have not because you ask
not'.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Well, there you have it, start
praying </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">and ask God to open doors in your life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“<span class="woj">And so I tell you, keep on
asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will
find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you” Luke 11:9 (NLT) </span></span><o:p><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> </span></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><em><strong>Take Action</strong></em> - Take action and do something.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We can't expect to accomplish things in life
if we are not </span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">willing to do the work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>God will do his part if you do your part.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Start by writing goals and follow through
with them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We are responsible for the
actions we take in our lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Be a doer!
</span><o:p><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> </span></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><em><strong>Have Faith</strong></em> - Do everything in faith.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It's amazing what can happen when you do
things in faith.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The possibilities are
endless.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"></span><em>"Be on guard. Stand firm in the faith. Be
courageous. Be Strong." </em></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><em>I Corinthians 16:13 NLT<o:p></o:p></em></span></div>
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<o:p><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> </span></o:p><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Start today to live life with no limits!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And test the waters for yourself.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Recently, I was asked to minister on Faith at the Women’s
Ministry at my church.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When I began to
prepare my notes, I started brainstorming on what personal testimonies I wanted
to share that would go in-line with the topic.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Two years ago, I would have been shy at the thought of sharing personal
stories.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But knowing who I am today, I
can freely speak on matters that were hurtful, confusing, and degrading without
getting upset.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Many years ago, I was
unable to think let alone speak on many things from my past because of the
emotional distress that it caused.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
decided to take a leap of faith and speak freely, boldly, and confidently on
any topic pertaining to my life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I’m a living witness as to what faith has done for my life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Let me explain….</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Last year, I was having a challenging time at my job.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was overlooked for a promotion and two
months after promotions were announced I was overlooked again for a leadership
position within my group.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Clearly, I was
disappointed as I should be (I’m sure some of you have experienced the
same).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But one thing I’ve adapted to do
in my life is pray about EVERYTHING!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Asking God for guidance is the only assurance I needed – and I did.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What God proposed for me to do was be patient
and have faith.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Well, as many of us may
already know that it’s easier said than done.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>However, I knew this was God’s test for me and I did not want to fail.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Now faith is the
substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>~Hebrews 11:1 (NKJV)<o:p></o:p></span></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">It was shortly after, that God revealed that he had other
plans for me in another area of the company.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Throughout my years with the company, I’ve had the opportunity to build
great professional relationships in other areas of the company and I knew this
would be a wonderful opportunity to communicate with some of my contacts.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Several months later, I received a phone call
from a Vice President in the Technology department.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He asked if I was interested in a position in
his area and of course, I obliged.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A few
days later I interviewed over the phone with another VP in his department and a
week after that interview the Director from the department traveled from New
York to the Delaware office to interview me as well.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Director informed me that he would be out
of town on business and would contact me when he returns.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In less than two weeks, I heard back from him
and an offer was made for the position.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>The amazing part of it all was that I did not have to go through the
normal protocols of posting for the position.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>One simple phone call made it all happen and I did not have to fill out
an internal posting for the position.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If
anyone understands what ‘faith’ really is and the blessings you can receive in your
life when you live in faith - this is a perfect testimony of it!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">We are made right with
God by placing our faith in Jesus Christ. And this is true for everyone who
believes, no matter who we are. ~ Romans 3:22 (NLT)<o:p></o:p></span></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Just as my career was
headed in a better direction, my personal life was being challenged.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>After several years of being in an unhealthy
marriage, counseling at my church and many prayers God finally saw I had enough
and guided me in starting the separation process of my marriage.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I knew it wasn’t going to be an easy task but
it was the right thing to do.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The
situation became chaotic and there was no peace.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was instructed by one of the assistant
Pastors at my church to stay in prayer which included praying for my ex-husband
– something I was totally against.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If
anyone knew half of what I went through with him, it would be easier to
understand.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But I wanted to remain
obedient and follow through on God’s instructions. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I have often seen friends, family and colleagues go through
some pretty messy divorces.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And
regardless of what led to this decision for me, I didn’t want us to be another
couple going through a bitter divorce that may lead to negative results.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was important for me to ensure that we
went through a peaceful divorce and remain in good standing for the sake of my
stepsons.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The truth is that we were both
good people who were not good together.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">In the beginning, there were many days I dreaded the idea of
going home.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But I continued to keep my
head up and ignore any negativity that came my way.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Even when my faith was being tested, I
continued to be faithful, obedient and patient.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>The truth is….faith is all I had to get me through.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Although, I could not see the plans that God
had ahead for me but I knew in my heart his plans were good – indeed they
were!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Each time I prayed God for
guidance in my situation, he answered my prayers by showing me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’m a visual person and I often need to see
things come to pass in order to better understand it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And can I tell you that each time I prayed
about my circumstances, he would send me a revelation that was powerful.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It wasn’t long before I’d see the answers to
my prayers.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">For assuredly, I say to
you, whoever says to this mountain, ‘Be removed and be cast into the sea,’ and
does not doubt in his heart, but believes that those things he says will be
done, he will have whatever he says. <sup>24</sup> Therefore I say to you,
whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive <span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">them,</span> and you will have <span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>~Mark 11:23-24 (NKJV)</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">After one and a half year of being separated, it finally
sunk in for the both of us.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We both
stayed focused on finalizing things in a much smoother capacity.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There was no animosity or bitterness between
us.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We were both able to move forward
with our lives and remain friends.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It
wasn’t easy but faith is what got me through it all.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I share my personal experience to encourage
anyone that when you pray and ask God to be the light in your life when
everything seems so dark - he will show you the way.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You must stay in prayer, believe and trust in
Him.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But most importantly, have
Faith!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">Stay Encouraged and Be Blessed!</span></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04717543872427283549noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8656204549100278163.post-42936802404211887012011-09-10T21:26:00.000-07:002012-09-20T21:32:56.956-07:00Embracing the Letting Go...<h2>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Several months ago, I had to make the decision to ‘let go’
of some things.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In some instances, I had
to also let go of some people in my life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>It sounds awful but let me explain what it all means.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There are many of us hanging on to situations
from the past that may involve people or even things that may be causing
hindrance in our lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I can admit that
I have done that for years – until recently.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>There were several mishaps in my life that made me realize presently
that it was time to let go of the past and anything attached to it – things,
people, and even memories.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Some memories
are good but the ones that are bad and ugly are best to let go or as I often
tell people – Release it!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">For many years, I moved on with life contemplating the
thought of revisiting my past, until I came to the realization what it would do
to my current state of being.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The past
does not identify who I am today; rather it would heal some open wounds that
still plague in my life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’ve been able
to talk about certain incidents in my life without getting upset which has made
me realize that I’m stronger and able to handle revealing more truth.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was a means of healing, knowing where I’ve
been and where I no longer choose to be.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Actually, it would help most of my family and friends to understand some
of my previous actions and why I’ve chosen my current path.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A path that I’m very proud I’ve taken to
finally become the person I was always meant to be.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It took some major steps in my life and
deciding to ‘embrace the letting go’ for good!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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<span style="font-size: small;">So, as I reflected on my life I knew that there are people
today living with a secret or secrets from their very own past.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This entails fear when we withhold
information about our lives. Afraid of exposing details of events that occurred
that may cause potential grief.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Constantly
thinking the opinions of others and protecting the guilty.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>No one wants to be treated as a victim.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Instead, we all want to be respected for the courage
and bravery we demonstrate when revealing the truth.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Having the faith to gracefully expose the
truth and finally be healed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Although, you will never forget the ride of your life – whether
it be good or bad but it no longer has to partake in your present and future
happiness.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I took steps in my life to
‘embrace the letting go’ of the past and I encourage you to do the same.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As I share what I did to be completely healed,
my sincere hope is that you find your way very soon too if you have not done so
already.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">First step</i> – Talk to someone you trust.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Whether it be a professional counselor,
family member or a respected member of your church.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I entrusted an assistant Pastor at my
church.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our first meeting was scary and
emotional.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But that first meeting broke
the ice for several more meetings to come.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>We had more sessions and she saw an improvement in me and she commended
me for my courage to come forward.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She
also revealed the strength I demonstrated since our first meeting.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am proud to say that she and I have become
very close friends too.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She’s been a
blessing in my life and I completely trust her.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Second step</i> – Self-Evaluation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Take time to reflect on what the past has done to your life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If the past has caused you to be unpleasant
toward others, make continuous bad decisions or you’re still living with bad
habits and addictions, it’s time to put an end to it all.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Write down any negative feelings or actions
you’ve shown throughout your life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’m
sure it has caused you to live a life with negative results.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Make a decision to reverse it to a
positive.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Start living life in a
positive realm and watch your life transform for the better.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Third step</i> – Forgiveness.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>It’s time to forgive yourself for any hurt you may have caused onto
others due to what you’ve experienced in your past.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We have all at some point in our lives acted
out with hurt we’ve experienced.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So,
start by forgiving yourself first to start the process of healing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Next, forgive those who may have hurt you in
the past.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It can be difficult to forgive
someone who has caused harm to you directly, but forgiveness is inevitable and
is another step in your healing process.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Forgiveness for myself and others has brought peace and joy in my
life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I can now confess that I’ve been
healed and transformed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’m no longer a
product of my past.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Sins confessed you must forget; <o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Look not back to yesterday-<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Full of failure and regret; <o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Look ahead and seek God’s way.<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>~D. De Haan<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Don’t let yesterday’s failures bankrupt
tomorrow’s efforts. <o:p></o:p></i></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i>Fourth step </i>– Release
it!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When I decided to finally ‘let go’
of my past I knew it was the best decision I’ve made in a long time.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I stayed in prayer throughout this process
and released it to God.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was no longer
my burden.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’ve released it and embraced
a new beginning in my life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Releasing
and letting it go allows you to move forward with your life and be free of the
past.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I can now confess that I’m no
longer a victim instead a Victor!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And
you too can be a Victor and experience the Victory in your life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">There’s so much more to life then living in rewind.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Make a decision to let go and move forward
with your life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Do you have a past that is difficult to let go and don’t
know how?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Or have you found a way to
heal, let go and move forward with your life?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Please share the steps you took to overcome that barrier in your life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04717543872427283549noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8656204549100278163.post-10784047824841564932011-08-08T19:30:00.000-07:002012-09-20T21:44:51.957-07:00You Complete Me!<div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<em><span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">Ever had someone say, "You Complete
Me?" Or have you heard it said to someone else? Perhaps, you may
remember Tom Cruise say it in Jerry Maguire or have read it in a romantic
novel. Either way, we have all come across those words one way or another.</span></em><span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">I recently had a conversation with a friend who expressed her
feelings to me about her relationship. She explained that without her boyfriend
she would not feel complete. I continued to listen to her go on and on about
her relationship and how happy she finally was. Although, I'm equally happy for
her, it made me realize that I used to feel that way. In fact, I had a
conversation with an ex-boyfriend recently and realized that I wasn't the only
one with the same feelings. He shared a very familiar phrase about how he felt
when we broke up years ago. He told me, "I haven't felt COMPLETE since we
split". Wow, I was surprised to hear that from him and it made me feel
warm and fuzzy inside to have someone feel that way about me. 'How sweet' - was
my true reaction.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">But let's hit the fast forward button.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">It wasn't long before realizing that it wasn't so sweet after all.
In fact, my whole persona of 'you complete me' has changed. To feel complete
means to be whole. I now know what a problem it is to feel that way. Feelings
of wanting someone else make you feel complete and whole explains the
insecurities a person struggles within. After having continued conversation
with my ex and hearing him explain the feelings he had at the time of our
break-up confirmed that we both were trying to feel complete being together.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">The misconception that so many of us have on relationships can
actually hurt us. If you do not feel complete and whole within then you can not
have a healthy relationship with others. Finding this in someone else is
hurting yourself and in the long run will hurt them too. This extends from not
loving yourself first. I've learned and realized how long I've been hurting
myself and others by not learning to LOVE ME first.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">I have come to terms with knowing my very own downfalls in
relationships. And I started with getting to know me and loving me first! This
may shed some light in your own journey too. We go through a break-up and feel
disappointed by the turn of events. But instead of taking time to heal to learn
about yourself and what it really means to love yourself we jump into another
relationship to have the feelings of fulfillment and completeness. Not only
have I myself experienced this but I've seen it happen with people I personally
know. The end results have always been negative.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">Although, I have not spoken to my ex in quite a while, what's more
disturbing is knowing that in my last conversation with him, he still struggles
with feeling complete within. He continues to focus on his relationships to
feel complete, wanted, and loved. And when things don't go his way in a
relationship, he dismisses women's feelings and uses the women for his own
enjoyment. This stems from a lack of being in love with himself. This is a
topic that will be discussed separately very soon. (Lack of Loving YOU First)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">My sincere hope for my ex and those of you out there struggling
with being complete within, is to take time to heal. By doing so, you get to
learn more about who you are, you'll be able to release the past, and learn to
move forward without guilt or regret. This is a first-step process in getting
to know you and falling in love with yourself. It will allow you to have a
better perspective in life. You would be doing yourself and those you come in contact
with a favor.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">Many blessings from me to you!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04717543872427283549noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8656204549100278163.post-87757752142983860182011-08-01T22:01:00.000-07:002012-09-20T22:03:30.298-07:00Love is the Greatest<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I promised myself that I would not revisit my past, unless I
was writing about it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As I decided to
write about Love and how it has changed my life, I realized that this is a
great opportunity to revisit my past and share my own testimony.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My hope is that you can understand what Love
has done for me and apply what you read and learn into your own life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p><br />
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Recently, I’ve been reading a book that speaks on how to
apply Love in everything we do in life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Regardless of our circumstances, we should apply Love in it instead of
frustration, anger, resentment, and any other negative feelings we may
experience.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Reacting in either manner
can lead to negative results in our lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>It’s called living in Strife!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We
must keep strife out of our lives to live a healthy, happy, and fulfilling
life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In order to achieve this, apply
love instead.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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As a child, I clearly remember the many days and nights I
dreaded being home with my family.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It
was difficult surrounding myself with love, when no love was given in our
home.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was too young to understand what
love was let alone give it to anyone or anything.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Due to the lack of love I received as a
child, led to countless bad decisions, days of misery, and a list of
insecurities within myself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I often felt
that I was a mistake and was not meant to be in this life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s sad to admit but it is how I felt in
those years since it seemed that nothing positive was going on for me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Although, I have some happy memories of my
childhood; they are far and few in between.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>There were more unhappy moments then happy ones.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But with hope and faith I imagined that one
day I’d be free.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So, here I am – I
surpassed it all!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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It’s clear to me today when I reflect on those years that
the reasoning behind my misery and unhappiness is that our parents didn’t show
love to each other and it reflected on the entire household.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A household without love led to numerous
arguments, resentment, dishonesty, secrets, disrespect, and the list goes
on.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My siblings and I did the best we
could to make sense of it all but it was truly a battlefield of survival.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For many years to come, I struggled with my
own identity.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was merely trying to
determine how I’m suppose to fit in.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As
I continued to read the book, I decided to ask myself a very important
question.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“How am I suppose to show
anyone or anything love if I never had it myself?” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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Through many heartbreaks and bad relationships I now stand
tall and am fully aware of how great life is when you experience Love.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For some it may mean to feel loved, but to
others it’s the gift of showing love.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>When you show love; you receive it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>It’s that simple.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And you do this
by realizing that you have love to give, so you are ready to receive it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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In fact, it’s impossible to love anyone if you do not love
yourself first.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’ve heard this many
times before and had not clue what it meant until now.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You must allow yourself the time to heal from
the bad experiences in your life to feel the love you have within you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This gives you the opportunity to deeply fall
in love with yourself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is then that
you are prepared to give in the form of Love.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Once you’ve been able to get through that hurdle, you will experience
the windows of opportunity<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>that Love can
provide in your life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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I encourage you today, if you’ve struggled with accepting
and loving yourself due to past hurt, please release it and set yourself free
from it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is time for you to finally
set yourself free and humbly accept the free will of Love.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Every experience in life helps us learn and
grow.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When we learn and grow, we are
given the ability to move forward.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Apply
love in every aspect of your life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You
will experience a major transformation in your life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What I’ve learned through this process is
that we all have control and power over our lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We do not have to live in agony any
longer.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Choose love and watch your life
improve drastically.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Love is not a feeling
we feel for each other; it’s so much more.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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Here’s the biblical meaning of Love: <o:p></o:p></div>
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I Corinthians 13:4-6<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://bible.cc/1_corinthians/13-1.htm" target="_blank"><b><span style="color: blue;">1</span></b></a></span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">If I could speak all the
languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a
noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. </span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://bible.cc/1_corinthians/13-2.htm" target="_blank"><b><span style="color: blue;">2</span></b></a></span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">If I had the gift of
prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all
knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love
others, I would be nothing. </span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://bible.cc/1_corinthians/13-3.htm" target="_blank"><b><span style="color: blue;">3</span></b></a></span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">If I gave everything I
have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it;</span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://nlt.scripturetext.com/1_corinthians/13.htm" target="_blank"><b><i><sup><span style="font-size: 7.5pt;"><span style="color: blue;">a</span></span></sup></i></b></a></span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"> but if I didn’t love
others, I would have gained nothing.</span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: magenta; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://bible.cc/1_corinthians/13-4.htm" target="_blank"><b><span style="color: blue;">4</span></b></a></span><span style="color: magenta; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Love is patient and
kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud </span><span style="color: magenta; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://bible.cc/1_corinthians/13-5.htm" target="_blank"><b><span style="color: blue;">5</span></b></a></span><span style="color: magenta; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">or rude. It does not
demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being
wronged. </span><span style="color: magenta; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://bible.cc/1_corinthians/13-6.htm" target="_blank"><b><span style="color: blue;">6</span></b></a></span><span style="color: magenta; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">It does not rejoice
about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. </span><span style="color: magenta; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://bible.cc/1_corinthians/13-7.htm" target="_blank"><b><span style="color: blue;">7</span></b></a></span><span style="color: magenta; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Love never gives up,
never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance</span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">.</span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://bible.cc/1_corinthians/13-8.htm" target="_blank"><b><span style="color: blue;">8</span></b></a></span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Prophecy and speaking in
unknown languages</span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://nlt.scripturetext.com/1_corinthians/13.htm" target="_blank"><b><i><sup><span style="font-size: 7.5pt;"><span style="color: blue;">b</span></span></sup></i></b></a></span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">and special knowledge
will become useless. But love will last forever! </span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://bible.cc/1_corinthians/13-9.htm" target="_blank"><b><span style="color: blue;">9</span></b></a></span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Now our knowledge is
partial and incomplete, and even the gift of prophecy reveals only part of the
whole picture! </span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://bible.cc/1_corinthians/13-10.htm" target="_blank"><b><span style="color: blue;">10</span></b></a></span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">But when the time of
perfection comes, these partial things will become useless.</span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://bible.cc/1_corinthians/13-11.htm" target="_blank"><b><span style="color: blue;">11</span></b></a></span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">When I was a child, I
spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away
childish things. </span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://bible.cc/1_corinthians/13-12.htm" target="_blank"><b><span style="color: blue;">12</span></b></a></span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Now we see things
imperfectly, like puzzling reflections in a mirror, but then we will see
everything with perfect clarity.</span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://nlt.scripturetext.com/1_corinthians/13.htm" target="_blank"><b><i><sup><span style="font-size: 7.5pt;"><span style="color: blue;">c</span></span></sup></i></b></a></span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"> All that I know now is
partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God
now knows me completely.</span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><a href="http://bible.cc/1_corinthians/13-13.htm" target="_blank"><b><span style="color: blue;">13</span></b></a></span><span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Three things will last
forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.</span><o:p> </o:p></div>
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Make everyday count – have a blessed and productive day!<o:p> </o:p></div>
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~Vicky Valdes<o:p></o:p></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04717543872427283549noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8656204549100278163.post-90501029667770850382011-07-11T21:05:00.000-07:002012-09-20T22:04:12.161-07:00Wake up – It’s Time for Breakfast! <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">Every morning when I awake I sit on the edge of my bed and thank
the Lord for allowing me to see another day. I then prepare myself to take a
shower. My shower consists of my gratitude checklist. I close my eyes and allow
my gratitude checklist to pour over my face to awaken my mind and spirit - just
as a shower in the morning would normally awaken me.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">Each day my gratitude list is different. Some days my gratitude
list includes my health, senses, my job, my car that provides me with daily
transportation, my family, wonderful friends, colleagues, and the list goes on
and on from there. We all have so much to be grateful for so it’s not very
difficult to compose a gratitude list even a mental one. It’s a wonderful way
to start your day and you will see your day flourish from there.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">Once I’m in my car driving, I start to pray. Some days my prayers
are focused on my morning travel and sometimes my prayers may last the entire
drive. It all depends on what my spirit calls me to do. What’s important is
that I’m still giving thanks and showing my gratitude through prayer. When I
arrive at work, I immediately log into my computer to get my day started. I
then pull out my book of Our Daily Bread and read the scripture of the day.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">These all consists of my very own ‘spiritual breakfast’. A great
way to start my day! I am aware that with having my spiritual breakfast it will
provide me with the nourishment I need to have a productive and blessed day.
Some people drink coffee because the caffeine helps them wake up and give them
the energy they need to get their day started. Well, the same goes with my
‘spiritual breakfast’. It gives me the boost I need to get me going daily.
Without it my day can go in various directions - but I choose the direction of
a positive path.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">I encourage all of you to do the same. When you wake up in the
morning, say to<br />
yourself, “It’s time for breakfast!” And take it from there.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">Make everyday count – have a blessed and productive day!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11pt;">~Vicky Valdes<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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